Marriage

Overview

The Sacrament of Marriage, or Holy Matrimony, is a public sign that one gives oneself totally to this other person. It is also a public statement about God: the loving union of husband and wife speaks of family values and also God’s values. In the vocation of matrimony, husband and wife are called to be an image of how Christ has loved the church.

Arrangements should be made at least six months in advance. Call the rectory office at (718) 821-6447 for an appointment. All couples must also attend the Pre-Cana program. Go to bqfaith.org to learn more and register.

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